People's behavior is about them, not me. I do not have to react, grovel, or even participate in their behaviors. I am who I am and I like being nice. I am also pretty honest. Sometimes it is impossible to share that honesty with others. They do not hear, they do not care, or it is just too hard for them. Discerning who is capable of hearing what I say is hard sometimes. Sometimes I just need to let it go and not hold resentments. It is not about me.