Love only gets messy when it mixed up with fear. A scary mix of biochemical reactions and fate. Love is purest form of ego suppression that destroys individuality, and recreates ego in a new and more satisfying form. The urges that push us to avoid pain, can push us to be a dictator. Fear sometimes is the opposite of love, not hate. Love is a concept by which we measure our pain and sadness. Love is boring. Intense attraction and magnetism is exciting. How many husbands who still in love with their wives get laid with prostitutes?