It’s not the women's fault if someone is sexually undesirable. That's just life. Not everyone is smart, not everyone is rich, not everyone is strong, not everyone is attractive, not everyone has a pleasing personality. Women are no more "in charge" of what they are attracted to than men. There are some men out there who are legitimately lonely and in need of some company they could not otherwise obtain. Maybe they even have some sexual dysfunction that makes a normal relationship impossible for them. However, this describes a very small minority of men who patronized women.